Have you ever wondered where you would be if you had not gone through what you went through? May be you had it easy in life and never got to experience the hard side of it, perhaps it was the other way round. All these burning thoughts should ignite your past experiences and reflect on who you are and where you are today. You should never live to regret and dwell much on the negative past, but rather use it to reshape the lives of those around you and contemplating on the question "Where Would i Be without Jesus". 
Jeremiah 1vs5 says "I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations". God knows all about you and knows all about what you went through even when you couldn't understand what was going on in your life at some point. Your life was already set apart by God long before you had an idea of what or who you would become. What's important now is to find yourself in the right standing with God so that you can experience His blessings and get to understand His will upon your life. 

Your life is a testimony that can transform many people and give them an opportunity to experience the love of Jesus as you did. One thing that you need to do upon realizing the grace of God upon your life is to ask yourself a second question, "What I have I done with this Grace". There are millions of people like the former you, who are not cognisant of the fact that their lives are still revolving around past experiences and negative thoughts. They have not yet encountered the love of Jesus upon their lives and they are emotionally locked up inside undesirable thoughts. This has affected the way they perceive things and mostly the approach by which they nurture their children.

Sharing the love of Jesus has no mathematical formula, but only requires courage, conviction and where you stand as a child of God. How God saved you from adverse situations is an effective way of sharing the Gospel and doing something about God's grace upon your life. Not many people within our communitiees require physical hand, some emotional therapy is enough to give them a standing. Reevaluating the past using it to gain more souls for the Kingdom of God and fulfilling the Great Commision in Matthew 28:19.